Kulabo abanothando olujulile lokubhukuda, ukusesha indawo yokubhukuda yomphakathi efanelekile kungaba imfuno eqhubekayo.Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngikutshela ukuthi ungaba nedamu lakho lokubhukuda lesizini yonke elihlakaniphile egcekeni lakho?Kulungile - ngaleli chibi elenziwe ngendlela oyifisayo, ungakwazi ukujabulela ukubhukuda unethezekile ekhaya lakho, kungakhathaliseki isizini.
Amachibi omphakathi angaba yizindawo ezinhle zokubhukuda, kodwa eza nengxenye yawo efanelekile yokuphazamiseka.Izixuku, amahora akhawulelwe okusebenza, kanye namazinga okushisa angaphansi kwalawo avamile kungase kuphazamiseke.
Enye yezinzuzo ezibalulekile zamachibi ethu okubhukuda ahlakaniphile esizini yonke isistimu yawo yokulawula izinga lokushisa ehlakaniphile.Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukushisa okushisayo kwehlobo noma izinsuku ezibandayo zasebusika, ungakwazi ukugcina izinga lokushisa elilungile lokubhukuda unyaka wonke.Zibone ngeso lengqondo ukwazi ukuthatha idiphu eqabulayo ngosuku olushisayo luka-Agasti noma ujabulele ukubhukuda okunethezekile endaweni enokuthula embozwe yiqhwa ngoDisemba - konke kungenzeka ngechibi lokubhukuda elihlakaniphile lesizini yonke.
Ukufakwa kuyashesha futhi akunankinga uma kuqhathaniswa namachibi avamile.Lawa machibi okubhukuda ahlakaniphile esizini yonke angasethwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa.Akusekho ukubekezelela inqubo ende yokwakha kanye nomsindo wayo kanye nesiphithiphithi.Igceke lakho lizoguqulwa libe yindawo yangasese yasemanzini ngokushesha nje.
Ukunakekela kuwumoya futhi.Iningi lala machibi lifakwe izinhlelo ezithuthukisiwe zokuhlunga, eziqinisekisa amanzi ahlanzekile nacwebile.Khohlwa mayelana nokugcinwa okuyisicefe nokuthatha isikhathi okuza namachibi omphakathi noma amachibi avamile.Ngokulungiswa okuncane, ungachitha isikhathi esiningi ujabulela ichibi lakho kunokulihlanza nokuyiphatha.
Ubumfihlo kanye nokunethezeka kuyizinto ezengeziwe.Ungakwazi njalo ukubhukuda ngejubane lakho ngaphandle kokuthi wabelane ngendawo yakho nabantu ongabazi.Awusekho uhambo lokuya endaweni yokubhukuda yomphakathi noma ukunamathela esimisweni sakhona - ulwazi lwakho lokubhukuda lungaphansi kolawulo lwakho.
Uma ungumuntu othanda ukubhukuda, umqondo wokuba nedamu lokubhukuda lesizini yonke egcekeni lakho kufanele ube ohehayo.Ngokulawulwa kwayo kwezinga lokushisa, ukufakwa kalula, ukunakekelwa okuphansi, ubumfihlo, kanye nokulula, inikeza ulwazi lokubhukuda okungafani nokunye.Valelisa ekusesheni ichibi lomphakathi elikahle futhi sawubona enjabulweni yasemanzini engapheli khona kanye ekhaya.