Kwabo banomdla onzulu wokuqubha, ukukhangela ichibi likawonke-wonke eligqibeleleyo kunokuba ngumnqweno oqhubekayo.Kodwa kuthekani ukuba bendikuxelele ukuba unokuba neyakho ipuli yokuqubha yexesha lonke elibukhali kwiyadi yakho?Kulungile – ngeli qula lilungiselelwe wena, ungakonwabela ukuqubha kubutofo-tofo bekhaya lakho, nokuba leliphi ixesha lonyaka.
Amachibi oluntu anokuba ziindawo ezintle zokuqubha, kodwa beza nesabelo sabo esifanelekileyo sokuphazamiseka.Izihlwele, iiyure ezilinganiselweyo zokusebenza, kunye namaqondo obushushu ahlala engaphantsi kunalawo afanelekileyo asenokungabekeki.
Enye yeenzuzo eziphambili zamachibi ethu okuqubha exesha lonke yinkqubo yawo ekrelekrele yokulawula ubushushu.Nokuba kubushushu obutshisayo basehlotyeni okanye ziintsuku ezibandayo zasebusika, ungaligcina iqondo lobushushu lokuqubha eligqibeleleyo unyaka wonke.Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakho ukwazi ukuthatha idiphu ehlaziyayo kusuku olushushu luka-Agasti okanye ukonwabele ukuqubha okupholileyo kubuhle obuzolileyo bendawo egqunywe likhephu ngoDisemba - konke kuyenzeka ngedama lokuqubha elinobulumko lonyaka wonke.
Ufakelo lukhawuleza kwaye alunangxaki xa kuthelekiswa namachibi esintu.La madama okuqubha alumkileyo exesha lonke anokusekwa kwimiba yeentsuku.Akusekho ukunyamezela inkqubo yolwakhiwo olude kunye nengxolo ehambelanayo kunye nesiphithiphithi.Ngasemva kwendlu yakho iya kuguqulwa ibe yindawo yabucala yasemanzini kungekudala.
Ugcino lulomoya ngokunjalo.Uninzi lwala machibi axhotyiswe ngeenkqubo zokuhluza eziphambili, eziqinisekisa amanzi acocekileyo nacocekileyo.Ulibale malunga nokugcinwa okudinayo kunye nokuchitha ixesha eliza kunye namachibi oluntu okanye amachibi esintu.Ngokulungiswa okuncinci, unokuchitha ixesha elininzi ukonwabela ichibi lakho kunokulicoca kunye nokulinyanga.
Ubumfihlo kunye nokulula zizinto ezongezelelweyo.Ungasoloko uqubha ngesantya sakho ngaphandle kokwabelana ngendawo yakho nabantu ongabaziyo.Akusekho kuhamba ukuya kwiphuli yoluntu yasekuhlaleni okanye ukubambelela kwishedyuli yayo - amava akho okuqubha aphantsi kolawulo lwakho ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuba ungumntu othanda ukuqubha, umbono wokuba nepuli yokuqubha yexesha lonke elumkileyo kwiyadi yakho yangasemva kufuneka ibe yinto enomtsalane.Ngolawulo lwayo lobushushu, ukufakwa lula, ukugcinwa okuphantsi, ubumfihlo, kunye nokulula, ibonelela ngamava okuqubha njengawe.Yithi ndlelantle kukhangelo lwechibi loluntu eligqibeleleyo kwaye molo kulonwabo lwasemanzini olungenasiphelo kanye ekhaya.